What does she want from me?

Joyce Meyer was preaching from her book Never Give Up the other day and she said it is funny how when people mistreat us, we assume there is something wrong with us. Why is it that we assume they are right and we are wrong. You did nothing wrong to her, you have been a loyal friend and care giver to her son, so stop assuming there is something wrong with you. She appears to have some kind of emotional issues, maybe bipolar, probably narcissistic personality disorder, we don't have the right to just guess things here, but you don't have the right to claim the guilt she is dumping on you. You don't have the right to assume you did something wrong, that there is something wrong with you, so stop that, and don't think that way. You can't fix her, let that go. You might offer to suggest that she get some counseling and start dealing with her issues. The thing about a death in her family is that she can be fine for a while and something can trigger back that pain of loosing her loved one, so don't you dare start claiming the guilt she is dumping on you. Help her to the extent that you can help her, but it seems like it would be wiser to drop her as a friend. peace be with you.